Last updated on February 11, 2020
When I booked my volunteer experience to teach English to young monks in Nepal all those months before landing there, I could not have known what waited for me when I touched down in the country. I knew stories of trekking in the Himalayas. I knew of the deep and rich history in Kathmandu. But I could not have known how much I would love the Buddhist monastery where I volunteered teaching English for two months. I could not have landed in a better place to volunteer than the Manjushri Di-Chen Learning Center. This Buddhist monastery was built to specifically address the poverty and lack of education in Nepal. It runs on donations and the donations sponsor rural children to attend the school, and also further develop the monastery with the needed classrooms and dorm facilities for the children living and studying there.
The children come from the poorest families in rural Nepal—areas where they live miles from the nearest school and may never have previously attended school. Once they are accepted into the Learning Center, they receive a formal education. As one would expect from a Buddhist school, students learn Tibetan language, script, and religion. They also study mathematics, English, and several basic courses. Although many of the youngest children have just left their families and were dropped into this new environment, they take seriously the opportunity to study, learn, and live in a safe environment.
The boys live at the monastery throughout all of their schooling and they return home to their villages for two months every year. Through several of the older monks, I learned that if they attend University, the monastery also pays for that tuition from donations and sponsorships.
One question I had regarding the schooling specifically centered on the Buddhist nature of it. These boys come to the school as young as five or six, and they haven’t chosen to live as a monk. The local leaders and the students themselves shared with me that they are not required to stay with the monk lifestyle once they leave the monastery. They are free to learn and study at the monastery, but then become “householders”—which means work, wife, house, and kids—once they graduate. That said, many students continue the lifestyle and religious practices into adulthood.
My monastery is receptive to native English speaking volunteers willing to teach English to the young monks. When they have no English-speaking volunteers, a non-native speaker—usually one of the head monks—takes over the class. For this reason, they are keen to have a rotating cast of native English-speaking volunteers gifting the students their time. The volunteers teach classes for eight levels of English language courses. During my time in 2009, there were 40 boys living at the monastery, and I taught all eight levels. The curriculum is based on the Indian schooling system and the young monks leveled up unevenly, so some classes were tiny with just three students. My kindergarten class had thirteen! Children stay in their given level for several years. It’s different from the US system where you progress annually to a new grade-level; several of my level eight monks were preparing for University.
Learning to Control the Students
During my first week, I shadowed another volunteer named Louise, with me co-teaching the class to learn the rhythm and keep the disruption of transition to a minimum. She had warned me about the naughty kindergartners. As the youngest of the bunch they had the least command of English. Once Louise left, I spent my evenings studying by candlelight, intent to memorize the most important of my Nepali verbs and phrases. I knew that if I wanted to control the class I would need to communicate in Nepali, otherwise they would just continue to ignore me and throw things at each other. They really only liked the Dr. Seuss stories, so I used that as a base for each class but then also learned a few commands in Nepali. These ones came in handy: sit down, please start writing/reading, repeat me, sit down, don’t do that, stop doing that, stop touching each other, sit down, please sit down. Sit Down—said in a harsher voice with emphatic hand gestures. STOP DOING THAT. And then time-out.
My first attempt at time-out actually yielded much different results than I anticipated. The kindergarten class is huge and wrangling thirteen boys who speak very little English is even harder than you may imagine. The thing is, I am really good with kids. I am patient and skilled at coaxing them into good behavior.
But these kiddos! They frustrated me to the max. One of the little boys would not stop headbutting, slapping, licking, nudging, rubbing, and pestering the others as we sat on the floor reading Are You My Mother by P.D. Eastman. I used several of my key phrases. I emphatically gestured to him that trouble was near. More key phrases. He still didn’t stop. After a few minutes, he had called my bluff. I had to follow through or lose my credibility so I made him step away from the group where I had gathered the kids on a blanket on the lawn for story-time. I indicated that he should stand in time-out for three minutes. He promptly walked 15 feet away with his back to us and grabbed his ear-lobes and began doing full squats.
I couldn’t tell if the kid was doing squats to sass me, but it seemed like more. One of the kids with strong English saw my confusion and said, “Miss teacher, it’s OK. OK Miss, ramro chaa.” Ramro chaa, means “it’s good,” so clearly this was a normal thing. I watched him for a few seconds before realizing that it’s a local form of punishment, so I quickly motioned the kid back to the blanket.
Later, I would read a news story from India about a little girl who died of dehydration and heat exhaustion because her teacher made her stand outside in the 100+ degree weather. Apparently, it’s prevalent throughout this region. After that, I was more careful about using timeouts when they misbehaved!
Learning the Quirks of Teaching English to Young Monks
Each of my eight classes had their own distinct group personality. The youngest always flagged me down between classes to check my pocket schedule and find out if they had class that day. They loved the English lessons even though they were exceedingly naughty. The next to levels were studious, serious, and they worked hard—they also loved English class and seemed to collectively want to create a learning environment.
But then, the dynamics changed with Level Three, they were unmotivated and unenthused, for reasons I couldn’t pinpoint. Perhaps during the rotating cast of English teachers over the years they had grown weary—that is surely a downside to relying on volunteer English teachers over paid staff who can build a rapport with students. Who knows. But their enthusiasm each day extended only to my standard greeting, “Good Morning, Miss”, which was a part of the monastery etiquette.
I loved my Level Four class. They had a passion for playing “Hangman” and they would do anything to earn ten minutes of the game at the end of productive classes. From there upwards, teaching the older boys was hit and miss. Level Six never wanted to participate in English class and often asked me if they could use it as an independent study. Level Eight was similar—it seemed they had other subjects they felt were more important than fine-tuning the last of their English language skills.
One monk, however, was in Level Eight but had a profound curiosity and motivation to learn. He went by a nickname, Lucky, and he sought me out at every opportunity to practice his English. He had high hopes of being accepted into the University in Varanasi, India (which he got into the following year!) and he would bring me long essays, letters, and stories that he wrote so that I could check the grammar. I worked with him every day and it was that relationship that was most rewarding during my month teaching English at the Buddhist monastery. In the years since I visited Nepal, I would write to Lucky many times and follow his progress.
All of the students had their own quirks, and like any new experience, it took time for me to learn how to adjust to the local culture. I was there to support the monastery in any way possible, and like many of my volunteer experiences over the years, they taught me more than I could have possibly imagined.
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45 thoughts on “A Little Learning… What is it Like Teaching English in Nepal?”
I found your article inspiring
Can you email me some contact details for teaching in monasteries in Nepal… many thanks
Hi Shannon, I’m also interested in this volunteer opportunity. Can you send me some more information and the contact information?
Hi! I’m trying to find a volunteering opportunity in a monastery in Nepal at the minute but they all seem to cost a lot! Would you mind sending me the contact details for this location? :)
Hey! I can’t seem to get in touch with that monastery— do you happen to have their contact info?
Hey Shannon! What a beautiful post :) I am interested in traveling to Nepal and volunteering to teach young monks at a Buddhist monastery as well. Do you have any suggestions as to how to get in touch with either this location or another? Thank you very much in advance!!
Thank you Kaleo, I’ve directly emailed you the details!
Great article! I was wondering… are there programs where 2 people can travel and go teach at a place together?
Yes, you can! This places would definitely allow that: http://blog.grassrootsvolunteering.org/volunteer-nepal/
Hi Shannon, I’d love to get the contact information and details for the monastery you volunteered at. Thanks!
Hi I am interested to volunteer to monks but can you do it just for a couple of weeks?
Hi Doreen! I suggest staying at a place in Kathmandu that operates more like a social enterprise: Check out Khawalung Monastery, which offers very affordable nightly rates and will also allow you to help in the classrooms at the monastery. The more rural placements require a month or more because that’s the minimum you should consider in order to provide the students with continuity of lessons and such. Here is a description of what it’s like to stay at the monastery by a past volunteer.
Hi shannon! I am also planning to teach English next year and Nepal is one of the country that move my heart. I did research about it and bump your article. Can you please email me the details how to? As it is my first time. Tysm
Like lots of others, I have just come across your article and found it fascinating and motivating. Myself and my partner are currently looking for a volunteer placement for later this year, and so we were wondering if we could also get the details of the monastery off you, if it isn’t too much trouble? We are on a tight budget so any info you could provide on costs etc would be much appreciated. Thanks a lot, Tom
do you need to be certified to teach there ?
No, it’s more informal than that. The boys have certified teachers for their other subjects, so you are just teaching English when there.
Hi Shannon, I am also interested in volunteering there next year and I was hoping that you would be kind enough to email me the details of this place. Thank you:)
Hi, I am planning to teach english in the coming Winter, would you also be able to send me the information about the school? Lovely article, thank you!
Emailed you the details!
Shannon – I am planning to spend a few months in Asia as part of my own RTW trip, can you email me your contact at the school? The opportunity sounds amazing.
Such a lovely story to read! , I wondered if I might also get the contact details off of you for this monastery?
Big Thanks x
Sure thing, email coming! :)
Hi Shanno, just stumbled upon your site while researching how to teach English in Nepal. Would love to know how I can get involved with this monastery as well. Thanks!
I’d love to get the contact information for that volunteer opportunity!
Could I also have the contact information? Thanks so much for posting this.
Thanks Shannon…lovely post…that you shared.Please send details of monastery and connections to my email…Namaste!
I’m also interested in this volunteer opportunity. Can you send me the contact information?
Just emailed you!
I am travelling for a year in January and I would also like to volunteer! Would you be able to send me the contact details?
Hi Shannon, I am also interested in volunteering at this monastery, would you be able to send me their email?
What a wonderful post, thank you so much for sharing! I would also be interested in these contact details, if you wouldn’t mind passing them along?
Sending along those details now! :)
Should we just contact the monastery directly through their facebook page? My son is a U student and headed to Nepal for the month of August before U and looking to teach but the web has alot of agencies that it is difficult to assess the reputations of.
Would you suggest any other approach, agencies, etc.?
He comes with top referrals from the Abbot of the Buddhist temple here in Toronto.
Thanks … Scott
Sure, that will absolutely work, or I will also send you the direct email contact for Manjushri deChen.
Hi Shannon, I am also interested in volunteering at this location. Could I get the contact information too? Thank you!
Just sent you an email!
I’m going to Nepal in June. Can you please give me the contact info of this location? Would love to spend some time volunteering there.
Just sent you an email with the details!
Thank you for your topic “rtw travel blog | volunteering teaching english at a monastery | a little adrift…”. Have a nice day.
Wow, really makes you think about how we all acted in school
Welcome to my life…minus the being in another country part :)
Glad to hear you’re having so much fun
Really interesting! How did you find this volunteer opportunity? Was it a simple Google search or did someone tell you about it???
My cousin found it in a volunteer book and we scoured the Web site to check out its legitimacy…signed up for it, and then figured out that we could have just done it ourselves!