Diva Cup Review: How Menstrual Cups Work & How to Pick The Best Cup

Last updated on October 29, 2021

A sterilizing cup and a Loulou cup—now one of my favorite menstrual cup brands. (Use “alittleadrift10′ at checkout for a 10% discount on your order).

My love for the Diva Cup means it’s time to review exactly how I’ve handled my period for more than a decade—most of which I spent traveling the world. I think all females, travelers or not, should consider using menstrual cups as there are very few circumstances under which the right menstrual cup is not a perfect alternative to pads and tampons . Even if you’re just in the fact-finding phase of determining how a Diva Cup works, and searching for unbiased menstrual cup reviews, this post is for you.

I started using a menstrual cup long before it became trendy, when you could only buy them at a co-op. I was in the throes of planning my year-long round the world trip back in 2008. My cousin implored me to buy a Diva Cup—one of just a couple mainstream brands available. I’ve never looked back. Her first words of advice to me, however, hold true now: Start learning how to use a menstrual cup months before you need it—there is a steep learning curve! That said, it’s worth it. Let’s dive into how a Diva Cup works, how the Diva Cup stacks up versus newer brands (I now use a Loulou cup most months), how to clean your cup (even when traveling), and advice to overcome the learning curve.


Review: My Diva Cup Verdict?

The Diva Cup is the most useful thing I pack when I travel. Using a menstrual cup gives me the confidence to go straight from a long bus ride to an epic hiking adventures. It never leaks. I’m never forced to schlep bags of tampons.

It just works.

The Diva Cup is one of the most useful things I took on my trip around the world, even though I had a rough start and nearly gave up on using a menstrual cup. It was messy and not good—I thought my menstrual cup was stuck inside. But within just one period cycle, I had figured it out. It started working after I spent a couple of days practicing (on low flow days). I’ve tested several brands over the years now, reviewing how the Diva Cup compared to others with different shapes and sizes.

There’s no single answer: Yes, Diva Cups work. But also, you many need a different menstrual cup brand. Let’s dive into why that might be the case.

What is a Menstrual Cup?

Diva Cup Review: Why menstrual cups are the best way to handle your period while traveling—plus what you should know before you switch.

Menstrual cups are eco-friendly “natural feminine hygiene alternatives” that sit inside you (like a tampon, but lower) and collect your menstrual fluid. Menstrual cups like the Diva Cup and Loulou Cup are made of medical-grade silicone, and each is about the size of a shot glass. When a menstrual cup is inserted correctly, the rim of the cup forms a seal against your vaginal canal. Once sealed, it takes care of business. The menstrual fluid flows into the cup, then you pull it gently out and dump the liquid into the toilet or sink. These cups fully replace tampons and pads.

The Diva Cup and Loulou Cup, specifically, fall under the larger umbrella of silicone menstrual cups. There are now many different brands as period cups have gone more mainstream—so many that it’s hard to know which menstrual cup is best for you. Every menstrual cup brand represents a different aspect of sizing, shape, and color, but they all work the same way.

How Do Menstrual Cups Work?

At its most basic, each menstrual cup is a small rounded cup made of pliable, foldable, and soft medical-grade silicon. All menstrual cups hold about an ounce of liquid—slightly more or less depending on the brand and size. Having a hard time imagining it? It’s about the size and shape of a shot glass, but with a small tail to help pull it out once inserted.

Menstrual cups like the Diva Cup work by collecting menstrual fluid inside the “shot glass” interior. The premise of the entire thing is that you fold the cup in half and insert it much like a tampon. Once inserted, the cup opens into the full circle again and then forms a seal. With a tampon, cotton absorbs your menstrual blood. Cups work because the seal ensures that your blood is collected in the cup.

Then you pinch the end of the cup and pull while you are over a toilet, tip the cup into the toilet, and flush it all away. You then wipe or rinse it out and reinsert. In this way, you actually have only one thing that you need each month: your cup. (Note: Always pinch before pulling as you need to break the seal, otherwise it creates a vacuum-like effect as you pull—that can cause serious issues).

The only downside to using a menstrual cup is the learning curve. When I first used the Diva Cup, it took me until my third period using it to have no leaking and messiness … and I cursed it the whole time during my first two months. This hilarious Hairpin article is a good read. Or you can check out the many, many thousands of often frank and sometimes wince-worthy reviews on Amazon. Although it was rough going at first, I’m a decade in and now there isn’t a menstrual cup out there that I can’t make work.

Menstrual Cup Reviews: Which Cup is Best?

Women come in different shapes and sizes, but the nature of the silicone means that most brands tend to work for most women. Some cups have a wider circular rim to ensure that you can form a strong seal if you’ve birthed a child, while some cups are shorter for women with shorter vaginal canals. But generally, menstrual cups are similar in size and shape, and they all work on the same premise of creating a seal so that the blood flows into the cup until you can dump it into a toilet or down a sink.

How to Pick the Right Menstrual Cup

  1. Think about sizing first. Every major menstrual cup brand offers two-to-three sizes: teen, pre-childbirth/under 30, and post-childbirth. The sizing is not hard-and-fast though; it’s a recommendation based on what will likely best fist the circumference of your vaginal canal, as well as the length of your canal, and even the volume of your flow. So, adapt the recommendations to your own circumstances and knowledge of your own body. Only by comparing menstrual cups can you determine where each brand falls on the spectrum. Not sure about which one is right for you? Not all of us know if we have a long or short vaginal canal or a low cervix, so this post helpfully breaks down the options and which work for different women, and this site is a trove of information (overwhelmingly so).
  2. Know thyself and your sensitivity. It was slim pickings in the early years on brands, but now you can even select the firmness of your cup. All reputable menstrual cups are made from medical-grade silicone, but some are softer than others, making for a more pleasant experience as you’re wearing it. The Diva Cup is actually far firmer than other brands. Until I tried the Loulou cup, I didn’t even realize a soft cup could still just as effectively form the seal. The firmness may make no difference to you, or a lot of difference—I can feel the pressure of the Diva Cup on my bladder more than the Loulou cup, and for teens or those who are very sensitive the softer cup may prove a … well, softer … transition to a menstrual cup.
  3. Acknowledge you may need to try more than one brand. When readers email concerns, it’s usually distress that they simply can’t get their menstrual cup to fit comfortably, or to reliably form a seal. Don’t give up! You may simply have picked a brand that is not ideal for your body.

Which Brands Have I Tried & Recommend

  • Loulou Cup: This company is a newcomer out of France and the cup is completely lovely. The first time I tried a very soft silicone cup it was a bust (looking at you Lily cup), but Loulou’s soft medium turquoise is a dream to use and more comfortable than any cup I’ve previously tried. (I love it enough that I asked for a discount for readers, and you’ll receive 10% off at checkout if you use “alittleadrift10′ on your order).
  • Diva Cup: The first cup I tried and one that has worked well for me for years (I use the larger size). The are an OG brand and have not tweaked the design at all. Which they should. I have two key complaints with Diva Cups. First, the stem is hollow, which makes fully sanitizing it very hard. Also, the clear silicone eventually turns a permanently unpleasant color no matter how well you clean it. And note that if you have a weak bladder, the firm pressure from this cup may also cause an issue.
  • Lunette: Consensus seems to say that the Lunette works well for those with a short vaginal canal or low cervix. I have a long vaginal canal, so I give this recommendation based on my petite best friend, who has used this brand for more than a decade and deeply loves it.

I have tried other brands over the years, but as of 2020, I go with the Louou cup every month, and I have my older Diva Cup as a backup. (That said, I still tend to use my Diva Cup overnight on my heaviest flow day because it’s one of the largest volume cups on the market).

Best Menstrual Cup for Teens?

The rising popularity of menstrual cups means that the major brands (and some new ones) have released teen versions of the cups in just the past few months/years. Teen cups are usually thinner and shorter, sometimes also featuring softer rims and a gentler experience for her lady parts. They are designed for those sub 18, and there is no bottom number—if your daughter has her period and can comfortably wear one, then she can also safely wear one. Although Diva Cup has a size 0, I actually recommend the soft turquoise LouLou in size small, it will be a far gentler introduction to using menstrual cups. Other than that, FemmyCycle is pretty popular, too.

How to Use Your Cup (Washing, Inserting, Etc)

  • Try it out before your trip! You’ll be thankful that you’re in your own clean bathroom while you discover the learning curve of using a menstrual cup.
  • It’s not for the squeamish. Inserting and removing the Diva Cup means you get a little more “invasive” than you have to with tampons, if you catch my drift. If you read cup reviews, this is a big factor for many people. You will be all up in your own business, to be frank. But you’ll also learn to understand your cycle better and get pretty good at using the cup without much issue.
  • That “twist” mentioned is the most important part of the process—that’s what ensures you have a good seal. That, and the holes at the top of your menstrual cup—you must to clean the holes between uses (just squeezing around the rim while under water cleans them out easily).
  • When they tell you it sits lower than a tampon, it’s SO true. Really low, make sure it pops open, then twist—it’s like magic. But, you definitely have to practice before it becomes second nature.
  • How to clean your menstrual cup. Pack a mild soap. Originally, I brought a small container plain, unscented liquid soap for use as a body wash and a cup wash. Now, I’ve use Cetaphil facewash religiously for years and it’s also a proven safe washing liquid for your cup, meaning you get a twofer by packing it. Or you can buy a mild wash from the company itself or handy sanitary wipes, too. Be sure to have a cleaning routine down pat before you leave—often that means having a sterilizing cup for a final deep clean each month. Generally, I lightly wash and rinse during my period and I give the cup a deep cleaning at the end before storing it for the next few weeks (unless I’m in a place with no potable water). Note: Using anything but mild products and water degrades the silicone, so it’s better to just wipe with toilet paper and use water until you get back to your mild soap if you’re out and about.
  • Buy at your local co-op or natural foods store, or online—at last check Diva Cups sell for less than $35 and the Loulou cup with sterilizer is under 40 euros. This is far less than the close to $200 annually women spend on feminine hygiene products.

After using a menstrual cup for over a decade now, I swear by it. Within a year it had shortened my period from eight days to four, and lessened my cramping/PMS symptoms to a number of hours now, not days. It’s worth the awkward transition and it’s just plain healthier for your body. I’ll never go back to pads and tampons.

5 Reasons to Use a Menstrual Cup

wearing the cup
I was wearing one for this epic boat jump in Australia. So, yep, you can swim with a menstrual cup!

1. You can wear your cup for 10 to 12 hours.

Life can get busy, and it’s handy when at work or while traveling to have longer stretches between finding a bathroom. As a long-term traveler, using a menstrual cup meant I was safe on the neverending 10+ hour bus rides, and on long, long days trekking across Nepal. Unlike reports, you can actually get TSS from a menstrual cup, but it’s incredibly rare. Most menstrual cup brands are safe to have in for up to 12 hours, but recommendations say you should aim for under 10 hours.

2. You can wear it before your period.

Menstrual cups don’t dry out your lady parts like cotton-blend tampons, so you can start using at the first signs of your period (although period panties are also a great option!). If I knew that I might start my period in the middle of a 10+ hour bus ride, I could use my Diva Cup before my period even started. Bottom line, it saved me from potentially embarrassing situations on treks like bleeding through clothes.

3. You can swim with menstrual cups, and really any activity.

You can live your best life with a menstrual cup, truly. You can swim, cycle, travel, dance, hike, bike, run, camp—there is no limit. Each and every one of those activities is possible to execute without worrying about if you’re going to embarrassingly bleed on yourself. Using my Diva and Loulou cup liberated me from trying to plan major outdoor activities on non-period days—I knew I could head out on a six-hour bike ride without searching for a bathroom, or wondering all day if I was leaking.

4. Reusable products mean always having what you need with you.

Whether that means heading to work or school, or leaving on a long travel day, you can easily have everything you need with you. My cup was the only thing I had to bring on my round the world trip (well, soap too) to handle my period.

Diva Cup

5. It’s green travel and oh-so good for the environment.

Waste is a huge issue for countries all over the world at every level of the socio-economic spectrum. This is doubly true for travelers visiting countries without effective waste management systems in place. In the West, we sometimes overlook that single-use pads and tampons don’t breakdown easily, and they clog toilets and landfills. A menstrual cup and period panties allow you to lighten your eco-footprint just a tad—your period business won’t linger in faraway rivers and forests long after you leave. Menstrual cups are reusable for up to a decade and there is nothing else you have to buy to use with it. Plus the non-BPA medical-grade silicone is far safer for your lady-parts than the surfactants, adhesives, and additives used in tampons and pads.

Menstrual Cups are brilliant and anyone comfortable with their body should give it a try. But beyond anyone, I consider it essential for women travelers, truly  :-)

And don’t take my word for it—look around online. Many women have also gone on the record about their love (and learning curve) with menstrual cups. And very important is that once you get a Diva Cup, or any menstrual cup, you are now a part of a community of women who have already figured it out; they’re normally right on with their suggestions so head to the internet if you need advice. Your new cup will come with very explicit tips and pictorial instructions too! There are tricks to help it work better, and some brands are better for petite women, teens, or women with specific vaginal canal issues.

Shoot me an email if you have any other questions, or better yet, leave a comment. And if you’ve tried the Diva Cup (or any menstrual cup that you love), share your experience in the comments! If you haven’t tried it yet, just go poke around the Loulou Cup page, read the reviews, and see what it’s all about—if it looks good for you, readers receive 10% off at checkout if you use “alittleadrift10′ on your order.


Disclaimer: I receive compensation if you use some of the affiliate links on this page, but my reviews are genuine and I’ve bought my own menstrual cups well over 13 years at this point—I first shared this detailed review back in 2009 as an ode to my Diva Cup.

167 thoughts on “Diva Cup Review: How Menstrual Cups Work & How to Pick The Best Cup”

  1. Third month using the diva cup….. first 2 months i wore a pad i was so scared i would leak, and i did until i learned what to listen for sometimes you dont hear or feel that “pop” so i decided to use rubber gloves each time just to get a better grip of the cup when twisting it, i twist it until the bottom rounds out a bit more and after turning It i pushed it in and pulled a little till i feel a suction. Then i know i wont leak , first time i was in the bathroom putting this on i was in for almost an hour, frustrated trying to find which fold is best, im sticking with the c fold, and im in and out of the bathroom in less then 5 minutes. The freedom i have now with the cup is amazing, fishing for hours on a pier no bathroom,… im ok, driving four hours away on my 3rd day of my period…. im ok…. my husband laying his head on my inner thigh while watching tv… no problem ,no period smell… im thoroughly sold and will not go back to pads or tampons.

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    • Thank you so much for sharing your experience Elena. Like you, I had a lot of issues those first two months while I figured out how to twist and pop it out. You describe to a tee what I do as well, with the little push and twist until you can feel that there is some suction. I am so glad that it’s working for you now!

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  2. I am about to set out on a 5 month trip to Southeast Asia and Australia. The bulk of my trip will be spent in Thailand. I am really interested in trying the Diva Cup, I have heard so many amazing things about it. The question I have that no one seems to be able to answer is if it is safe to clean with water in developing countries. I know in many places over there the water is unsafe to drink, does that make a difference in cleaning/ the use of your Diva Cup? Is it safe to clean it with the water there?

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    • Good question. The water will be safe to clean it with in Thailand (in most places, probably not if you are in a rural village), you can usually brush your teeth with the water in Thailand and be fine so the same is true for the Diva Cup (but you’ll drink filtered water). If I was in a sketchy situation with no running water I just wiped it clean with toilet paper. Other than that, I cleaned with water and soap and never had issues and I’ve used it in 40+ developing countries. You are only changing it twice a day usually for 5-7 days, so the instances where it’s sketchy are few, and you can use bottled water if the tap water is truly gnarly (rarely). Hope that helps!

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  3. I tried the Diva cup and it is the most convenient female product I have every used. I will never buy tampons or pads again. The diva cup is a little pricey, but it save you from buying any other product every again. I didn’t t have to worry about embarrassing leakage. I did not need to wear a pad to prevent leaks from a tampon. I admit it is difficult to use at first, but once you learn the proper insertion method it is very easy. I wish this was invented years ago.

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    • Thank you for sharing your experience Stacy! I know it’s so overwhelming for some people to think about the switch, but once you’re used to it there is just no going back. :)

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  4. Thanks for the awesome article!!
    The one thing I’m a little concerned about is how I’m going to wash it.
    I will mainly be staying in hostels with shared bathrooms, where the sink is open to everyone.
    How is it you avoided washing it with onlookers?

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    • Glad you’re planning to use it on your travels! It’s actually not so tough on the road — easier than I expected. I also stayed in hostels with shared bathrooms, but you will find that there are often at least one bathroom in the place with a private setup. Or a handicap stall. And guesthouses in Asia will have small private bathrooms as the norm because they are retrofitted as communal living spaces. And if there is truly no discreet way to get to a sink, you can wipe it with toilet paper and clean it next time. I did this on hikes and places without a sink. Because it can last 10-12 hours (after your heavy day), you aren’t changing it every time you use the bathroom, like you would usually do with tampons. I usually change it three – four times on my heaviest day, then twice a day after that and it’s never been an issue. Hope that helps assuage your concerns! Between the long time it can stay in, and the ability to just wipe it clean with TP when needed, you will manage for sure. Also, if I can’t find a way to boil it, sometimes I would boil a cup of water, take it to a more secluded area and then let it soak in boiling water. :)

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  5. Love this idea! I am planning a 2 month trip to SE Asia, and this seems like a great solution to my monthly needs. Only problem I am having with buying one is how do I determine what size to buy?

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    • There are some helpful guides that list out the sizes of the cups and their lengths (I linked to them at the bottom of the post), but those only really help if you have an understanding of your vaginal canal. In general you are choosing two things, the width of the cup so that it will open wide enough and form a circular suction in your vaginal canal, and the length — these two things vary with each cup. For shorter statured people, sometimes they have a shorter canal and the Diva Cup is too long. Petite friends have reported that they prefer the Lunette. I love my Diva Cup and they tell you that if you’ve had a child or are over 30 you need the model 2 (which is a bit bigger circumference). I have the model 1 because I bought it before I was 30 and it still fits well. Think of your relationship with tampons as a guide (can you use them, can you take a super, etc). Then go read on some of those forums for more tips on selecting the right brand and size. They have a LOT of great info. You may have to buy more than one if the first is just not forming a good suction, but I promise it’s a good investment to figure it out! I would never go back. :)

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  6. to my surprise we finally have found a solution to my long vacation trips off home. i did not expect that there is something that could be done for my time of the week. great work. thank you.

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  7. I’m travelling in a few days and I was wondering if it was comfortable or anything to change your cup on the plane?
    How was it getting through security?
    I’ve read a few things online and I’m starting to get a bit worried

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    • It’s made of medical grade silicon and therefor not a problem in security checks. None at all. As for changing it on the plane, no one knows what you do in the bathroom — there is a sink, toilet paper, and a toilet, you have everything you need right there. It’s a cinch on the plane. As easy as any alternatives.

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  9. Hi! I’ve been thinking about getting the Diva Cup for a while now for my travels, I’m just worried about the risk of infection with the bad drinking water in parts of Asia. I’m heading to Nepal too (as I know you mentioned in the article). Was it okay for you to use the water to wash your Diva Cup? Any other travelers use it while traveling in developing countries?! Thank you! :)

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    • That’s a good question Amanda. I used the local tap water in nearly every place I visited. But I did sometimes just wipe it out and wait until I could use clean water. That’s one of the great things about the cups — they tell you that if you are in a pinch, you can just wipe it clean with toilet paper and then wash it later. Usually you will be staying in places with at least running water, so if you have to use a sketchy bathroom, you can wait and wash it later. I know a lot of travelers who use the same method and have never had an issue.

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  10. I’m glad your experience been better than mine. I was initially very enthusiastic about the cup, even though – like you, and everyone else who uses it – there was a learning curve. Even once I figured it all out, though, the cup fell far short of expectations (and it’s own claims, frankly). I have a heavy flow, which is why I wanted to try it. I loved the idea of only dealing with it twice a day. That is emphatically NOT what happened. I have to empty my cup six to eight times a day, and it’s a difficult, messy process (particularly in a public washroom). I’ve gone back to tampons – they’re just much easier.

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    • I am sorry to hear that it didn’t end up working out for you. I agree that doing it up to eight times a day would be a lot to handle considering the increased mess. I know some women report using it has lightened their periods, but it sounds like even a little lighter wouldn’t make a difference or make it worth it. Thanks for weighing in and sharing your personal experience with it! It’s important to recognize that even if you really want it to, it just might now work right for all people.

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    • One should last so long as you don’t lose it, they are made to last for maaaany years. I had mine for 6+ years now and it’s still fine. I actually just bought a new one last month because I needed the bigger size, but not because there was anything wrong with it. For boiling, I usually do it once a month. After every period I wash it really well with the mild soap and then boil it vigorously for 5 minutes. You can do it as often or few times as makes you comfortable. If I couldn’t get a stove for a couple months on the road, I didn’t sweat it. Good luck!

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  11. Just to bring up a point that is outlined on the DivaCup site; they mention NOT to use oil soaps (Dr Bronner’s in an oil/castile soap), as it breaks down the silicone. Just thought you should know.:)

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  12. Ok so I just recently found out I have PCOS which causes me to bleed literally 25 days a month (no joke) one or two days in between where my body loves me and I don’t bleed like a gutted pig. Is it safe to use that long?

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    • Yes! Much safer than using tampons that frequently. It’s medical grade silicon, so it’s similar to the type of silicone they use in breast implants that live inside peoples’ bodies for decades with no harm. Do your research, naturally, as I am not a doctor, but the Diva Cup website says it’s tested as safe for long-term use so long as you keep it clean and sterilized via boiling often. Good luck!

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    • It definitely works with heavy periods too, you’ll just have to change it more often, and maybe even wear a pantyliner if you are super heavy. Not sure what you mean about clotting, but I linked to so great forums where they discuss a lot of the nitty-gritty details and perhaps you could ask there.

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  13. Thank you Shannon for sharing your experience with Divacup. I invite you all to have a look at my info website all about menstrual cups, how and why using them and find out about all the brands available on the market today.

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  14. I never even heard of menstrual cups until I was 50 years old and starting to get very heavy pre-menopause periods. I was looking to find SOMETHING to use for the two-week-long periods that I had to change tampons every two hours. I was actually to the point of wearing two super-plus tampons and an overnight pad (or later a baby diaper in my underwear), just to last two or three hours during work or overnight. I came across ‘the cup’ on an Internet search and ordered one. It enabled me to go for four hours with no leakage or smell. I became proficient with it just a few months before my doctor decided that it was time to do a cauterizing procedure to address the unhealthy amount of bleeding I had. In the following couple of years, I did have 3 or 4 normal periods in which I was able to use my cup. I WISH I had known about this lovely invention earlier in life, so I would have been able to not be enslaved by the tampon-and-pad system of having to carry around a bag or purse to contain those items and always remember to shop for and maintain my ‘stash’. One tiny little bag containing my ‘little buddy’ would have been all I ever needed–easily stashed in my purse or even in a pocket on my jeans! I tried to relay this revelation to my daughter, but she was already indoctrinated into the so-called “neatness” of the tampon, and wasn’t willing to change. Her loss. When young ladies are first educated about their menses, they should be educated about ALL forms of fluid collection. I don’t know why, in the early 60’s when I was in health class learning about “the curse” (LOL), that they didn’t say word one about cups (and there WERE around then)–only pads and, *horror*, tampons that only sluts or married women could use because they would take your virginity!

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    • Thank you so much for sharing your own experience Terry, I know that a lot of people see it as a bit of an odd idea at first, but once you get the hang of it, it just has so many amazing implications on the rest of your health and life. I am also so glad to hear that you were able to take care of the medical issue that prompted you to find the Diva Cup! Cheers and thanks again for sharing your own thoughts on how you used it in your life!

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  15. For anyone worried about cleaning your menstrual cup during your travels, have a look at http://www.meluna.org they have a small foldable silicon cup you can use in the microwave for boiling and also sterilising tablets.

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  16. Hi Shannon! I want to thank you so much for writing this review! I am currently walking the Camino de Santiago in Spain and I don’t know what I would have done without the Diva Cup. There are long stretches of the Camino where you don’t have access to restrooms and so using tampons would have created quite a problem. With the Diva Cup I didn’t have anything to worry about except putting one foot in front of the other. :) I would not have even thought about going with a menstrual cup if I hadn’t read your review when I was getting ready for my trip. I decided to give it a shot and I am so grateful that I did! You are a life saver! Thank you!

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    • Congratulations on the walk — I have read several accounts of the pilgrimage and its one of the things I would like to do one day. I am so glad you found the cup useful on your travels, it’s one of those things that seems pretty odd until you try it. Safe journey.

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  17. BUYERS YOU ARE RISKING A SCARY AND HUMILIATING NIGHTMARE IF YOU BUY THIS PRODUCT.

    I purchased the correct size of the diva cup yesterday, and followed all of the directions on inserting the cup. I did not feel it for the 5 hours I wore it, it and it did not leak, so I was convinced at this point the product was great. The nightmare began when I tried to remove it.

    Again I followed the directions on how to remove the cup, and I immediately found the cup had moved up my vaginal canal several inches and lodged itself behind my pelvic bone. I struggled for 30 minutes trying to remove the cup. The stem was simply too small and too slippery to keep a grip with two fingers, and the suction was too strong to allow the cup to budge.

    I was unsuccessful at removing it and hysterical at this point convinced I would have to go to the dr the next day. My husband volunteered to assist which was humiliating but necessary. Another 30 minutes later and four more manly fingers later, the cup came out.

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    • So sorry to hear that you had a hard time getting it out, that sounds so stressful. It does form a tight seal sometimes and relaxing those muscles is hard when you’re not used to taking out the cup. Hopefully you find alternatives that work for you.

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  18. I’m on day two of using my Diva cup for the very first time and I already know that I won’t go back to other products. It seems like I’m super lucky, but I didn’t have any trial period of getting it right at all. I put it in and it just worked perfectly. No leakage all night. No mess while changing it this morning. Not a drop outside the cup all day today. Maybe my lady parts just have a good shape for a cup like this. I got my mom a cup the same time I bought mine. She just tried it out for the first time too while on vacation and she had no problems or messy trial period either.
    However, I do not feel like my cup sits any lower at all than a tampon. But maybe that’s just me.

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    • Yay!! So glad to hear it’s working for you. Mine sits a lot lower, but that’s just me. Everyone is different and if your lady parts are liking it, then that is excellent! Glad to know there’s another convert, it’s such a easier way of handling periods and I could never go back either. Safe travels! :)

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  19. Okay, I’ve been hearing about these for a little while. To tell you the truth they terrify me (in a sense) especially after reading the amazon review (which was also very funny). I tried to use tampons when I was younger (I’m 24 now) and hated them. I couldn’t get them in right and when I tried to take them out it didn’t work- just not a good experience. I’m still a virgin and still using pads and planned on sticking to that route until after I got married. Now since I’m getting ready to go on an 11 month mission trip I’m rethinking some things.

    So with all that said would you still recommend I give this thing a try?

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    • Yes! I would. Tampons feel complete different inside, and with a tampon, if you aren’t very heavy it can even hurt to insert because it is dry cotton. I would rec that you do a little more research on the sizes, find one recommended for teens (probably going to be a smaller fit). Off the top of my head, I think the Lunette might be best, but I haven’t looked into it much.
      It will be messy the first times you use it, start on a med flow day and just keep trying. I truly cannot feel it once it’s in correctly. It’s a great enough solution that I think it’s worth the money to see if you can make it work, esp if you’ll be doing any rural mission work. I felt exactly like that woman in the Amazon review the first two periods. Now it’s 6 years later and I cannot imagine going back. Good luck and I hope you have a wonderful trip!! :)

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    • Sorry to butt in, but I just replied to this article and then saw your review and thought I could give you some input too. After years of tampon use I recently bought a Diva cup and just started using it two days ago. I got lucky and didn’t have any problems even the very first day using it. But the reason I think it’s could work better for you than a tampon are the two main reasons (in my experience) tampon use can be uncomfortable.

      First is dryness. When your flow is very light (as is often the case with teenagers and young adults) tampons can begin to chafe and irritate your vaginal channel. When the tampon is too dry it also often isn’t slippery enough to just come out. It sticks to the walls and pulling it out can actually hurt. This could account for your problems in getting the tampon out. Some lubricant can help with this, but if the flow is that light a pad might just be better.

      The second reason is not putting the tampon in far enough. When a tampon isn’t inserted deeply enough it can press uncomfortably against your pubic bone which is very uncomfortable bordering on painful. The tampon should then go deeper until it is behind the little bone ledge formed by your pubic bone. As an aside, this is actually one of the reasons why I wouldn’t recommend tampons with an applicator for tampon beginners. It’s just much easier to feel the ledge and feel where the tampon should go with your fingers.

      Anyway, dryness is much less of a problem with the cup. As Shannon mentioned in her article, you can even insert the cup before you get your period and it will not dry your vagina out. And the cup is also less hard and rigid than a tampon, which lessens the impact of it pressing against any bones or sensitive tissue considerably.

      I truly would recommend that you at least try it out. The cost is quite reasonably in my opinion. If it won’t work for you, you haven’t lost much and can maybe even get a refund, depending on the seller. But if it does work, you will spare yourself a lot of hassle for years to come.

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    • I’m 47 and rarely used tampons. I just tried the cup and it was way more comfortable than a tampon. Also worked for me first try…but I have had 5 kids. I would say try it. The benefits outweigh your fears. (I was a virgin til marriage. Good for you).

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  20. After reading your post, now even i am considering using it!!! It seems to be a good choice….Just one doubt, doesn’t it feel uncomfortable when you are wearing it?

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    • Way more comfortable than a tampon actually! You can’t feel it once it’s in, and it’s silicone and squishy, so nothing to be jabbing or poking. You’ll love it! :)

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  21. I absolutely love your post and have found it very helpful! Just got a Diva Cup a week ago, literally right before my period, and it’s great! I can’t believe I didn’t know about these things during my travels in Africa and Asia – life would have been more worry-free! At first I was worried it would leak during my trail-run and I’d be stuck on public transit, but after a quick check in the WC, all was spotless! Eco-friendly and money-saving!!

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    • So glad it worked the first time like that for you! It’s amazing and you’ll never go back. Thanks for sharing your success! :)

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  22. I have been using the Diva Cup for about 6 months now and I am so happy that I made it past the “learning curve” phase! I had read a few reviews online and picked up a few tips but I still had to figure it out on my own time. The review that you posted from Amazon was hilarious and I as well relate to the “no need to spin it” perspective. There’s no way that thing is spinning once it’s inserted and as long as I haven’t tried to insert it too far up (like a tampon) there’s no leaking. I’m super satisfied with it and haven’t bought pads or tampons since. It is a bit harsh on the old lips for a bit but that being said once all is said and done that thing stays in for 12 hours!
    *I now insert it with both hands, one holding the top (keeping it folded) and the other pushing the stem in and it seems to work like a charm.
    *I also find it really does help to pretend like you are taking a dump or spewing forth something from your vagina in order to bring it low enough to snatch onto it *SQUEEZE* it and take it out (the only issue with squeezing it and releasing the suction is if the cup is full it does get a bit messy – hands to the sky crying out “WHY”).
    *Before I started the old two hander, I would put one leg up on the bathtub or toilet and insert it like I would a tampon and this worked ok too…except for when the lips of the cup blast open while halfway into your vagina! Not cool Diva Cup, Not cool. The try again thing can get taxing.
    * Also this may sound a little bit funny but that’s ok! I had to acknowledge that I was shoving a silicone cup into my vagina and this is a bit intrusive. Now what I do is a hold the cup in my hands for a moment and say I bless you with light and love and then I insert it on an out breath! Tricks of the trade – just thought I would share!
    Go Green – Go Diva Cup – YAY!

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    • I am so happy that you stuck with it through the learning curve and have come out the other side loving it! Thank you, truly, for sharing these tips here with the ALA community. It’s can be so frustrating to be all alone in your bathroom trying to figure out how the heck to make it work right!

      Go Diva Cups and hope you have a wonderful weekend!! :)

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  23. I’m a 15 year old girl and am going on a four week trip to the Philippines from the US. I’m not traveling with parents or any REALLY close family and will be sharing a bag with my older cousin. I’m terrified at the thought of a) packing feminine products in a shared suitcase or b) having to buy more.. I’m debating buying one of these! It seems simpler, but I’m also a bit scared at the prospect. Gonna have to do a bit more research, I think ^_^

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    • Definitely do your research to find out if you think it’s a good fit for you. I will note that I told my niece that when she is 14 (she is now 13) that she could switch to this — I really want her using this long-term. Also keep in mind that all the brands are a bit different sizes, so if you are smaller/still petite then you might want to consider the Lunette. And, if you do end up sticking with the tampons, you can always take the tiny sizes without an applicator — they are super compact and not much harder to put in than the ones with an applicator, and then seal them up in a bag. Your cousin will likely respect your privacy if you just have a small makeup bag with them or something like that. Just message me if there is anything I can do to help! Good luck and have an amazing trip May! :)

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  24. I had been reading about the menstrual cups for a few days and really feel convinced about tyring it out. We do not have a wide market in Mexico basically because the tampon/pads brands would be highly affected so they keep it silent. I see in other countries such as USA, Canada and places in Europe it is becoming part of women’s daily life which is something that really makes me smile. I loved your review and will look into having one shipped over here, perhaps get a friend of mine to send it. Just one thought Shannon, menstruation is not gross at all and no, men are not more lucky than us not to have it. It is a natural phase in a woman’s life and one of the most important times for us. If you look into it, you will find information on how a woman’s period was almost sacred in antique cultures. It was considered a time of introspection and complete connection with themselves. It is sad to know that this patriarcal world has made us think it is gross and something terrible to live with. Women used to connect themselves to the energy of the moon and were led by its phases. It was a time of silent for having their period meant they were not pregnant, therefore not giving a new life so they were in complete meditation. Even in those days men had full respect for these women. It is important for men to get involved on these matters and stop trying to avoid it. How sad it is to see so uncomprehensive men around. Well this is just a thought I have with all the respect towards your ideas and all the women in this forum, just a personal opinion given from what I have studied and researched. Also excuse me if my English is not great, hope you all got my point.
    Greetings!

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    • Hi Sandra, thanks so much for weighing in here. It’s an important topic and I appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts. I definitely think there is a lot that we need to do to raise the conversation. I think that some men are embarrassed by the topic, so that’s some of the tone that I took. In terms of “gross” — here I was a bit more talking about the entire process. The menstrual cups are more invasive in a way, you have to really get involved in your menstruation process more than with tampons or pads. This is something that really opened my mind a lot, just using the cup these past few years.

      I hope you are able to get a cup to Mexico! It’s really worth the effort, it”s an entirely different experience, and healthier and easier to manage your period in many ways. Best of luck and many thanks again for reading and sharing. :)

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  25. I am from South Africa and its quite costly to ship the DivaCup over here. But I see that a local store has a similar one, ‘the Moon Cup’. is that as good as the DivaCup?

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  26. Just ordered a Lunette so I can practise before my trip! I’m kind of scared about removing it though, isn’t there a spillage situation every time?

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    • Very good to practice first, the learning curve is tough, and I hated it the first month! As for spillage, the first two months I used it, it was very gross, lots of spillage and scrubbing my hands after. Now though, I can really say that with practice it’s far easier. On my super heavy days it will spill a little, esp if I go too long, but other than that it’s really only mildly messier than a tampon to take out and put in. The top edge of the cup acts as seal, and if you pull and tip into the toilet as you do it, you’re in the clear! Good luck and shoot me an email if you really run into any difficulties! Oh! And have a wonderful trip! :)

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  27. That is great. I am planning to travel around the world next year, going to buy the cup asap as I want to try it on before deciding if it’s worth it to take it along with me.

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    • I really highly recommend the menstrual cups. I also suggest you do some research around (and on this site: http://menstrualcupinfo.wordpress.com/ ) I use the Diva Cup, but depending on your stature some of the other brands might actually be more ideal (some readers have emailed since this post and noted that the Lunette could be a better choice for petite women!). Good luck with it! :)

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      •  Ok, no Diva Cup here, only Moon Cup. I tried it last month and it worked like a bliss. A bit awkward at the beginning, afraid of loosing it or that it would get lost inside… ehm… awkward feeling when it moves to settle in but overall I’m going to stick with it. It gives you such a sense of freedom after a while you even forget you’re wearing it!

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        • Yay! Glad to hear you’re a convert. My first attempt was pretty rough…messy and stuck don’t even begin to describe it. But, after years of using it, I can assure you, it only gets easier. And it really is so, so nice not to worry at all about this sort of thing on the road. :)

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  28. Interesting item :)
    I'd love to use it, it would be especially useful during traveling as you say ! But I often travel to under-developed countries, where the tap water is not potable; would that be a problem to clean it ?
    and also, I often go to hostels, so my only opportunity to boil water is in the shared kitchen, and I'm not sure how comfortable I would be putting my divacup there for all to see !
    If you have any advice/tips for traveling to under-developed countries with a divacup, I'd be interested to learn :)

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    • You can still use it! I used my Diva cup all throughout Laos, Cambodia,
      India, and Nepal.

      The most important point is that you can wipe out the cup with toilet paper
      until you get to potable water. In that way, if you're changing it but have
      no water, just wipe it out w/tp and wash it the next chance you get (bottled
      water in some cases ).

      And I unfortunately did go a couple of months sometimes between boils – but
      I did find the opportunity here and there – there are times when the hostel
      kitchens are empty – or in guest houses, you can request a cup of boiling
      water and they are so accomodating in India and other developing countries
      and I let that suffice :-)

      I loved using it particularly in these countries because it meant less times
      that I had to use the bathrooms and I found it easier than trying to dispose
      of sanitary products.

      Hoped that helped! I traveled around the world with the diva cup and it was
      great the whole time :-)

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  29. You can still use it! I used my Diva cup all throughout Laos, Cambodia,
    India, and Nepal.

    The most important point is that you can wipe out the cup with toilet paper
    until you get to potable water. In that way, if you're changing it but have
    no water, just wipe it out w/tp and wash it the next chance you get (bottled
    water in some cases ).

    And I unfortunately did go a couple of months sometimes between boils – but
    I did find the opportunity here and there – there are times when the hostel
    kitchens are empty – or in guest houses, you can request a cup of boiling
    water and they are so accomodating in India and other developing countries
    and I let that suffice :-)

    I loved using it particularly in these countries because it meant less times
    that I had to use the bathrooms and I found it easier than trying to dispose
    of sanitary products.

    Hoped that helped! I traveled around the world with the diva cup and it was
    great the whole time :-)

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  30. Interesting item :)
    I'd love to use it, it would be especially useful during traveling as you say ! But I often travel to under-developed countries, where the tap water is not potable; would that be a problem to clean it ?
    and also, I often go to hostels, so my only opportunity to boil water is in the shared kitchen, and I'm not sure how comfortable I would be putting my divacup there for all to see !
    If you have any advice/tips for traveling to under-developed countries with a divacup, I'd be interested to learn :)

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  31. Thanks for these other great links and resources – I'll actually add them to the bottom of the post so that others know that there are more options out there if the Diva Cup doesn't quite work! I appreciate the thorough feedback!! I can't imagine ever going back to tampons and pads :-)

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  32. I found this post when I Googled “menstrual cup” blog discussions. I know I'm late to the party, but I have to speak up in favor of menstrual cups. I wish I'd known about them much earlier! Not having to have a tampon/pad stash in my purse, at work, in my carry-on for the plane … not worrying if the dog is going to dig used “sanitary goods” out of the bathroom wastebasket … not getting the eye-roll from my (then) boyfriend when it turned out that the clog in the toilet was caused by tampons …

    Shannon, you're right — the Diva Cup isn't that big. Go to this link (http://community.livejournal.com/menstrual_cups…) and scroll down to see a picture of the Diva (and several other brands of menstrual cup) next to an OB tampon. Menstrual cups aren't any longer than an OB — and as for the diameter, the cups are very flexible and easy to fold.

    There are lots of different brands of reusable menstrual cups besides the Diva — the Keeper, the Lunette, the Ladycup (my favorite), the Mooncup, to name just a few. This website — http://www.menstrualcups.org — has all the scoop. When the Diva didn't work for me, I did a little research and found just what I was looking for.

    Anyway, thanks for letting me ramble. I'm glad the Diva Cup worked for you, Shannon — it's a great accessory for a RTW trip!

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    • Thanks for these other great links and resources – I'll actually add them to the bottom of the post so that others know that there are more options out there if the Diva Cup doesn't quite work! I appreciate the thorough feedback!! I can't imagine ever going back to tampons and pads :-)

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  33. I found this post when I Googled “menstrual cup” blog discussions. I know I’m late to the party, but I have to speak up in favor of menstrual cups. I wish I’d known about them much earlier! Not having to have a tampon/pad stash in my purse, at work, in my carry-on for the plane … not worrying if the dog is going to dig used “sanitary goods” out of the bathroom wastebasket … not getting the eye-roll from my (then) boyfriend when it turned out that the clog in the toilet was caused by tampons …

    Shannon, you’re right — the Diva Cup isn’t that big. Go to this link (http://community.livejournal.com/menstrual_cups/profile) and scroll down to see a picture of the Diva (and several other brands of menstrual cup) next to an OB tampon. Menstrual cups aren’t any longer than an OB — and as for the diameter, the cups are very flexible and easy to fold.

    There are lots of different brands of reusable menstrual cups besides the Diva — the Keeper, the Lunette, the Ladycup (my favorite), the Mooncup, to name just a few. This website — http://www.menstrualcups.org — has all the scoop. When the Diva didn’t work for me, I did a little research and found just what I was looking for.

    Anyway, thanks for letting me ramble. I’m glad the Diva Cup worked for you, Shannon — it’s a great accessory for a RTW trip!

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  34. I found this post when I Googled “menstrual cup” blog discussions. I know I'm late to the party, but I have to speak up in favor of menstrual cups. I wish I'd known about them much earlier! Not having to have a tampon/pad stash in my purse, at work, in my carry-on for the plane … not worrying if the dog is going to dig used “sanitary goods” out of the bathroom wastebasket … not getting the eye-roll from my (then) boyfriend when it turned out that the clog in the toilet was caused by tampons …

    Shannon, you're right — the Diva Cup isn't that big. Go to this link (http://community.livejournal.com/menstrual_cups…) and scroll down to see a picture of the Diva (and several other brands of menstrual cup) next to an OB tampon. Menstrual cups aren't any longer than an OB — and as for the diameter, the cups are very flexible and easy to fold.

    There are lots of different brands of reusable menstrual cups besides the Diva — the Keeper, the Lunette, the Ladycup (my favorite), the Mooncup, to name just a few. This website — http://www.menstrualcups.org — has all the scoop. When the Diva didn't work for me, I did a little research and found just what I was looking for.

    Anyway, thanks for letting me ramble. I'm glad the Diva Cup worked for you, Shannon — it's a great accessory for a RTW trip!

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  35. Thanks for the review! I'm travelling through Asia next year and never really gave much thought to that but it sounds like a great product and I think I'm going to give it a go!

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  36. I think it is definitely worth trying – give it a chance though because you're likely going to hate it the first month! :-)

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  37. Thanks for the review! I'm travelling through Asia next year and never really gave much thought to that but it sounds like a great product and I think I'm going to give it a go!

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  38. Wow! I've been contemplating this particulary backpacking problem earlier this week. This sounds like a pretty great solution, definitely going to look into it. Thanks Shannon!

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    • I would think this would be HORRIBLE for a backpacking trip. How are you going to get your hands clean with limited water supply? Or maybe just walk around with blood stained cuticles?

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  39. Wow! I've been contemplating this particulary backpacking problem earlier this week. This sounds like a pretty great solution, definitely going to look into it. Thanks Shannon!

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  40. I was wondering- interestingly enough- the other day if you ended up liking this product. Good to know. I'd be interested in trying it out. Well done Shannon. :)

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    • Glad to have some backup – I really have yet to meet someone who hasn't converted once they try it! I haven't heard of the Moon Cup but it's good to know they're options out there :-)

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  41. Now that is a product that looks like it could be very useful. Thanks for being brave and reviewing it. I am going to look into it. Do you have to order it online?

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    • You may have to order online – but my local co-op natural foods store carried it. I don't know if you have “Whole Foods” but they DONT have it. They have a store finder on the site: http://divacup.com/

      I seriously think it's worth a try considering your upcoming travels!!

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  42. Oh my lord. I'm not sure how I feel about trying it, but after reading all the scary pesticides used in the cotton of tampons, I might just have to convert too…although it looks rather large. You really can't feel it?

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  43. Glad to have some backup – I really have yet to meet someone who hasn't converted! I haven't heard of the Moon Cup but it's good to know they're options out there :-)

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  44. Try it! I seriously will not ever go back. There is an initial “Eww factor” to using it but you seriously can't feel it – to put it in you fold it, insert it, then it pops open – and let's be real, it's not that big ;-) If it's in correctly you will literally forget you are wearing it.

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    • I was wondering- interestingly enough- the other day if you ended up liking this product. Good to know. I'd be interested in trying it out. Well done Shannon. :)

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  45. You may have to order online – but my local co-op natural foods store carried it. I don't know if you have “Whole Foods” but they DONT have it. They have a store finder on the site: http://divacup.com/

    I seriously think it's worth a try considering your upcoming travels!!

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  46. Now that is a product that looks like it could be very useful. Thanks for being brave and reviewing it. I am going to look into it. Do you have to order it online?

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  47. Oh my lord. I'm not sure how I feel about trying it, but after reading all the scary pesticides used in the cotton of tampons, I might just have to convert too…although it looks rather large. You really can't feel it?

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